Every priest is called to service differently, and at different times in their lives. Fr. Remo and Fr. Stan, along with Bro. Doug,
are members of the Province of the Stigmata of St. Francis. They are inspired by St. Francis to live simply in fraternity, prayer, and service.
The Capuchins have served our parish faithfully since 1995.
Fr. Stan Kobel, OFM Cap.
Parochial Vicar
Seminary: Immaculate Conception Seminary at Seton Hall University, South Orange, NJ.
Date of Ordination: September 7, 1996
Who influenced you to consider the vocation to the priesthood and, more specifically, to the Capuchin order?
Fr. Vincent Fortunato, OFM Cap. He was the Novice Director for our order at a time when I was in Philadelphia and saw a two-page article about a Friar. That article touched me. I went to meet the Friar and wound up talking to Fr. Fortunato. I felt like I was home and I told him that I wanted to pursue a vocation to the Capuchins.
God wanted me to do what I did in the manner that I did it and I entered the Capuchins in 1989. On the day of my ordination, I asked Fr. Fortunato to bless my Chalice.
What did you do before you became a Capuchin?
I was a General Manager of a large corporation.
What would people be surprised to learn about you?
That I love golf and used to play! I was a boater and had a large cabin cruiser.
What are some of your hobbies?
I like classical music and opera.
What are some of your favorite books/spiritual readings/magazines?
The Bible, books by Walter Kasper, the writings of St. Bonaventure.
Who is a hero to you?
My father and Martin Luther King, Jr. are heroes to me.
What have been some of the greatest joys for you as a Capuchin Priest?
As a Capuchin, working with the poor and sick in the medical van in our ministry in Wilmington, DE. As a priest, it is working with the wonderful parishioners here at St. Thomas Aquinas for the past 13 years. I have been here for most of my priesthood!
What are some ways that we can promote and support vocations to the priesthood and religious life?
By quietly, in prayer, and voicelessly in approving of vocations. By simply showing positive, outward support.
What advice would you give to a young man who is contemplating a vocation to the Capuchin life and/or the priesthood?
First of all, take your time to discern your vocation. Don’t let people push you but take your time and pray.